It’s International Women’s month and here at Kapa we choose to observe it by celebrating the confident woman. To do so, here are a few tips and tricks that will make you appear and feel like the wonder woman you are. In any situation, looking and feeling confident will help you gain instant credibility and people will be more inclined to listen to you even if you don’t feel confident in the moment.
By acting confidently, you set up your mind to start thinking, acting and feeling like it.
Let’s get straight to it!
BODY LANGUAGE
A strong posture will tell people you are communicating to that you are sure of yourself and the message you’re conveying. The best posture is when you are facing the person straight on. You will appear confident when you roll back your shoulders, seat or stand straight and keep your chin up. When meeting or greeting someone, ensure to give them a firm handshake, make eye contact and smile while introducing yourself. Do you know people will notice if you’re confident or not within the first nine seconds of seeing you? Body language plays a big part in that.
WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND?
Change the way you think and talk about yourself. Go in front of the mirror and tell yourself how confident you are and repeat it constantly in your mind.
“I’m a confident woman. I look, feel and act confident in every situation”
The way you think and talk about yourself is the way you will always act. Remember that you become what you think and say about yourself.
DRESS THE PART
As earlier mentioned, people will make an impression about you within the first nine seconds they see you. Dressing to impress is the fastest way to show your confident levels. Next time you need to show confidence, make sure you spend a few extra minutes picking your perfect outfit for the occasion.
TAKE IT EASY
Slowing down your actions and speech will help you look more relaxed. You are able to manage and control your emotions, actions and words better. Acting and talking fast will only make you appear nervous and insecure. Control your words and movements because composure sends a signal that you are confident and have the situation under control.
To all you wonderful women out there, may you remember that you are valued today and always. Always believe in yourself and in your ability to conquer!
